Guys do u feel the same as we women do , when u are in love .....?

i mean can they really feel the pain of missing his gf , do they remember their first kiss, first love , or first movie with their gf , all those romantic moments . do they hurt as much as we women do when there is a breakup, can they think of us when listening to a romantic song .... are really men capable of all these emotions that we women face in a relationship all those mushy feelings , or is it just true that men are from mars .is it a complete waste of time expecting them to know how we feel [be it happy in romance or the pain of a breakup] . am asking in General how are guys when it comes to love