Why won't my abusive boyfriend let me leave him?

He's already been cheated on he is seriously self conscious. He finds himself incapable of being with a woman so he tries to hold on (actually clingg on for dear life!). Who's to say if he really loves you or not. He probably thinks he does love you but his way of loving someone is just insane. I would advise for you to NOT break up with him before you get the proper help yourself. For example, make it so that he can't track you down again. Proceed with caution he's been hurt and he's trying to avoid that from happening again. Unfortunately you won't be able to leave him that easily.